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| How Do You You See Yourself ? |
Have you ever felt like boosting your self confidence? Most of us get by in life with limited self confidence but just getting by if not enough for some of us. As we age we realize that many opportunities have passed us by because we didn't have enough confidence to take the bull by the horns and deal with whatever it was that stopped us. It's the same story being played out time and time again for most of us. "If only I spoke up" is a favorite quote you'll often hear, its one which you'll hear many of us saying to ourselves when things didn't go as we planned. If you feel that you have no self confidence then don't think you're unique, not having confidence is wide spread and many of us are not living the lives we've always wanted because of this debilitating psychological condition.
So how does an average person from a normal background find himself in this situation? There are many reasons for low self confidence. However the main culprit is our upbringing. Many of us come from normal backgrounds, we were raised properly, we went to school and some of us went to college but it doesn't take real confidence to achieve these things. For most of our lives we just follow a map that has been laid out by our parents and we will do as we are told until we come to adulthood. Only when we hit our twenties do we feel free to make our own decisions in life however if we don't learn how to go after the things we really want then most of us will unfortunately live out our lives in mediocrity.
Some of you reading this may think that it's too late; you feel that you're too old to change. You feel that learning to get confidence at such a late stage is impossible but this isn't the case at all. Anyone can develop confidence no matter what age they are, all it takes is a little bit of persistence on your behalf and you'll eventually learn how to get the things in life without feeling that you don't deserve it. To make a change in our lives, many of us attend self confidence courses which are a great way of boosting self confidence. However not all of us would feel comfortable in attending one of these courses so we'll invest in self help books which can point the way to a better life.
Developing confidence in a short period of time is not as hard as it once was. With advances in technology we can achieve supreme self confidence in only a matter of weeks. Many do this by using a technology called subliminal messaging. Those who use these subliminal recordings report that their confidence has soared and because of this, their lives have changed forever. Increasing self confidence by the use of CD's and MP3s which can be downloaded from the internet is the way many are now turning to. It's very fast as the positive affirmations on these CD's are absorbed directly into the subconscious so there's no learning curve what so ever. So if you're looking for a true confidence builder, then the subliminal CD route is the fastest way to achieve this by far.
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